read this few paragraph from the book Derek Sir lend mi.. previously share it with OTC 06 pple and grp Sierra.. now i post it here ba.. hahaa..

juz a few sentence that i find it useful.. maybe, some of u noe it already..

- people are training for success, when they should be training for failure. Failure is far more common than success; poverty is more prevalent than wealth; and disappointment more normal than arrival.

- if your perception of and response to failure were changed, what would you attempt to achieve?

- what does matter is that your life can change if you're willing to look at failure differently. There is no achievement without failure.

there are 2 type of leaders, thinking positive and negative.. those who continue failing backward or continue to move on failing forward..

* failing backward leaders
- blaming others
- repeating the same mistakes
- expecting never to fail again
- expecting to continually fail
- accepting tradition blindly
- being limited by past mistakes
- thinking "i'm a failure"
- quitting

*failing forward leaders
- taking responsibility
- learning from each mistake
- knowing failure is a part of process
- maintaining a positive attitude
- challenging Outdated assumptions
- taking new risks
- Believing something didn't work
- persevering

think about a recent setback you experience, how would you response??

no matter how difficult your problems were, the key to overcoming them doesn't lie in changing your circumstances. It's in changing yourself. That in itself is a process, and it begins with a desire to be teachable. If you're willing to do that, then you'll be able to handle failure. From this moment on, make a commitment to do whatever it takes to fail forward.

=)

had a super long phone conference yest with huishi till midnite 3am smt.. ha.. it feel so gd to say everything out.. and yea!!! u are the best advisor.. hahaa... let's go out and have fun afta ur zone ncoc!! hehheh!!

going In-line Skating on the 1 Dec at East COast!!!! hooray!!!! janice!!! skate till we siao!!! thankx Mr samson who organise it!! wahahah!!